Question in the title.. I'm struggling to cope with a friend at the yard. I like weekends to myself, and lately it's just not happening. I don't mind giving up a Sunday, but now she's encroaching on my Saturdays too :unsure:
I've never been a sociable person, and I admit over the last 12 months I have improved a great deal, but that's for work reasons, there I have to because it's part of my job. Weekends though, that's where I unwind and allow me to be me, not pushing my boundaries and allowing myself the space to breath.
I get grumpy at home when I can't get the quiet time I need with my horse, and become reluctant to go up and spend that time, because I know i'll get no peace when I do. Those who don't pressurise me, are the one's i'll happily talk to, because I know they don't want anything from me time wise.
I've never been a sociable person, and I admit over the last 12 months I have improved a great deal, but that's for work reasons, there I have to because it's part of my job. Weekends though, that's where I unwind and allow me to be me, not pushing my boundaries and allowing myself the space to breath.
I get grumpy at home when I can't get the quiet time I need with my horse, and become reluctant to go up and spend that time, because I know i'll get no peace when I do. Those who don't pressurise me, are the one's i'll happily talk to, because I know they don't want anything from me time wise.