In my mid to late 20's I suffered very much with lack of confidence and low self esteem, but thankfully now I'm 42 it is long behind me, mainly due to starting riding! I met some lovely people when I started having lessons at 34 - and tbh, there was no room for shyness, I just had to get on with it!lol. Everybody was so nice though and I look back on those early days with fond memories!
I don't have many friends, OH is my "best friend" always has been! I have a couple of old friends from way back when, we don't see much of each other these days, but then again, we don't need to! We know that we're always there for eachother when push comes to shove and it is nice to know that we don't have to see a lot of each other to make it work still. (HOpe that made sense my grammar is rather bad this morning!).
I don't know how old you are but I am guessing it might be an age thing? I used to care so much what people thought about me, I chose my words carefully.............(still was a chatterbox though once I got to know someone!). As I've got older and hopefully wiser, I talk a lot still (see how many fluffy posts I write on here is testament to that!) but I don't care what people think so much in real life and I don't over analyse myself.
Its an old chestnut but just be yourself and enjoy your horse hobby - try not to worry too much about how many mates you have or haven't got and if you prefer your own company then so much the better!
I don't have many friends, OH is my "best friend" always has been! I have a couple of old friends from way back when, we don't see much of each other these days, but then again, we don't need to! We know that we're always there for eachother when push comes to shove and it is nice to know that we don't have to see a lot of each other to make it work still. (HOpe that made sense my grammar is rather bad this morning!).
I don't know how old you are but I am guessing it might be an age thing? I used to care so much what people thought about me, I chose my words carefully.............(still was a chatterbox though once I got to know someone!). As I've got older and hopefully wiser, I talk a lot still (see how many fluffy posts I write on here is testament to that!) but I don't care what people think so much in real life and I don't over analyse myself.
Its an old chestnut but just be yourself and enjoy your horse hobby - try not to worry too much about how many mates you have or haven't got and if you prefer your own company then so much the better!