I have been having a few problems with Toby since I bought him 18 months ago - he has become increasingly dominant, spooks more and more, has bitten my friend badly and had her cowering in a field, has kicked out at me several times and has generally been a bit of a nightmare. His spooking when out riding has got worse and worse, he bucks and his final piece de resistance was when out on a ride and three horses came galloping down a field he completely lost it. He reared, tried to climb the bank and having got off Ijust managed to get him away and back home - and this was with friend and bomb proof cob.
Had a little think, decided against getting rid of him and got a NH instructor. Toby so much better on ground, we are practicing our exercises - we have had three lessons and Toby calmer, happier, less stressed and mid October is next lesson which will be ridden.
Friend and I have DIY livery - we rent a field and three stables with lovely hacking but unfortunately in a retirement village! Today, owner of field and husband wandered across - usually makes friend and I think 'what now!' and then out it came. Oh she said, wondered how you were getting on with instructor. Fine, I said, think he is improving. Well she said, seems to be the opposite of the horse whisperer her way of training. Well, I was absolutely gobsmacked. Yes, Toby has had a couple of clips with the long lead rope - possibly because he was rearing and boxing at her, and yes, he has objected to being asked to do various things and has done a runner and been stopped. No excessive force has ever been used on him, and she herself admitted that she was scared of him and wouldn't walk across the field with him there. She then proceeded to tell me she had watched the Exmoor rescue centre who had used join-up and how well it had worked. I really felt like screaming at her and telling her join-up is a means to and end and for horses that are scared of people (which clearly ponies straight off the moor are) are not like toby who has no respect at all for people.
Bit my lip and said Toby had not liked being my leader clearly and felt happier safer and calmer now I was stepping up to the plate.
Rant over and large G and T for anyone who got through that!!
Had a little think, decided against getting rid of him and got a NH instructor. Toby so much better on ground, we are practicing our exercises - we have had three lessons and Toby calmer, happier, less stressed and mid October is next lesson which will be ridden.
Friend and I have DIY livery - we rent a field and three stables with lovely hacking but unfortunately in a retirement village! Today, owner of field and husband wandered across - usually makes friend and I think 'what now!' and then out it came. Oh she said, wondered how you were getting on with instructor. Fine, I said, think he is improving. Well she said, seems to be the opposite of the horse whisperer her way of training. Well, I was absolutely gobsmacked. Yes, Toby has had a couple of clips with the long lead rope - possibly because he was rearing and boxing at her, and yes, he has objected to being asked to do various things and has done a runner and been stopped. No excessive force has ever been used on him, and she herself admitted that she was scared of him and wouldn't walk across the field with him there. She then proceeded to tell me she had watched the Exmoor rescue centre who had used join-up and how well it had worked. I really felt like screaming at her and telling her join-up is a means to and end and for horses that are scared of people (which clearly ponies straight off the moor are) are not like toby who has no respect at all for people.
Bit my lip and said Toby had not liked being my leader clearly and felt happier safer and calmer now I was stepping up to the plate.
Rant over and large G and T for anyone who got through that!!