i'll start from scratch now!
After reading some of the posts on here, ive spent most of the morning near to tears! I love my pony to bits and the fact that his mouth is cut & bruised bothers me enormously, o.k. so he didn't chose the bit or put it in his mouth himself, i did, but i didn't intend for his mouth to be damaged either
the later posts, however, had lifted my spirits somewhat.
Obviously i have a pony with a problem, (or is it me) nothing new there ill start as best i can from the beginning to see any of you can help me further, this does not mean that im not grateful for any of the suggestions that people have posted!
Toddy is a 16 year old Cremello Connemmara X gelding! who ive owned for almost 11 years now, i bought him from a riding school where he'd been for 9 months! he was just unsuitable for the kids to ride! He has a headshaking problem which is most prevalant in the summer and he wears a fly net which works fairly well.
the bit i had used at the weekend was a pinchless french link
3 ring dutch gag type, fitted correctly, 1 wrinkle on his mouth, he did not however have a noseband! because i didn't have one, he was mouthing the bit and foamed & became wet on it, which is very unusual for him, he is normally dry mouthed, hence the fact i cannot use happy mouth bits as they chaff him terrible. Once hed got himself into a stew after a fast canter, he wouldn't settle and jogged and pulled and leaned all the way home roughly 5 miles! I tried sitting deep using my legs and half hats, i tried dropping the reins and letting go of the contact, this resulted in his head droping to the floor and practically dragging his nose along!
In the school he is a good boy, and does listen to aids, even though he doesn't work in a correct outline! i can walk trot & canter and downward transitions without a tug of war breaking out!
The bit i was using prior to this i felt after earlier posts a myler short shank combi bit was maybe too strong and had outlived its purpose as he was evading the contact by coming behind the bit, and then leaning and pushing through his neck and chest!
I rode the other day in a loose ring french link and although in the school environment he was relatively well behaved, got a little wizzy in canter, but still listened to my aids! on a hack out i would have been out of control!
In the past we have ridden successfully in a hackamore! unfortunately this clever old stick has learnt over time to evade this, after a 12 month break i tried it again, only to be carted round the field on a schooling session!
Ive used straight bars, mullen mouths, all of which encourage him to lean terribly!
Pelhams hes not keen on or Kimblewicks either as he seems to dislike the poll pressure or the curb not 100% sure which but he tuckshis head in and comes behind the bit in these! the pelhams ive tried are mullen mouth & ported!
American gag was tried too, but was far too severe for him and he threw his head high in the air to avoid any contact whatsoever!
My thoughts at the moment are i would like a bit for my boy that hes happy with and that im confident he has respect for & myself!
although i know certain people here will disagree i though maybe a cherry roller (as its a snaffle) would help as i understand that they cannot take a hold or lean on these!
if theres anything you feel is missing in order for you to help me please dont hesitate!
ive tried the bit bank, but there suggesting very expensive bits, that are similar to american gags and im not convinced it would work and to be perfectly honest havent got £70 odd to spend out on a bit at the moment, when i think its just another gimicky type bit! im not saying that if it worked i wouldn't buy it, but they do seem to try and recommend unusual or expesive bits! maybe thats just my experience!
His tack, back and teeth etc., are all fine! this behaviour in Toddy is Toddy in the norm! a bit will work for a while then im back here again at square one