One of the cobs i ride (who i actually thought about buying for a while!) is generally very ploddy - he's stiff and has aged quite rapidly. Anyways, my RI was telling me to tap him up but whenever i did, he bucked. Not a big buck or one intended to unseat, just more of a stroppy one - however forceful or gentle the tap was. But without tapping him up he will NOT move forwards off the leg. He was actually very forward going (for him!) today and i didn't need to use my stick much, but i was still a bit uncomfortable tapping him when he obviously wasn't happy about it. So what should i do? If i don't tap him up i end up nagging with my leg and we inconvenience the whole ride, if i do tap him up he goes forwards but is evidently not happy about it - he does have issues with stiffness and does really struggle with his corners, too
- so part of me doesn't want to push him too hard, but he wouldn't be in the RS if he wasn't capable of doing the work (he is on loan to them so if he didn't make the cut they can just send him back home as opposed to having to sell him on). I'm confused as to what to do - do i carry on letting him plod about (which i don't mind doing but everyone else in my lesson inc my RI does!), or do i keep him moving forwards and keep my RI happy even if he protests
? After learning more about his soundness issues, especially in this cold weather, it doesn't seem entirely fair on him, but like i've said, if he wasn't up to RS work they can very easily and quickly send him back to his owner - or perhaps i'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and he's just taking the mickey
? I'm very confused as to what to do because i'm not entirely sure what is exactly going through his head - irritation from being made to work harder or pure upset because it's uncomfortable for him. How can i keep everyone happy???
ETA: Remember he isn't mine so i have no control over back, saddle, teeth checks etc or over his exercise program - all i can do is get on him and try and make the most of the hour we have
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