I dont post a lot on this forum but am looking for some advice. Dont have many people around me to talk to the now. This is a long one by the way.
I have been with my OH for around 8 years. Theres an age gap of 13 years he being the oldest but it has never been a problem. The last month he has been quite grumpy with me saying he wants peace and quiet for a bit. I dont live there just stay now and again but am a frequent visitor cause of the dogs etc. He hasnt been working so much the last couple of months own business so is in the house a lot, so maybe i was coming up a bit much sometimes 4 times a day so i agree to that so i stayed up at mine for lunch etc and tried to give him a couple of days off cause he was in the house more.
Bearing in mind he went a golfing holiday the middle of june to Egypt he has been in the pub nearly every nite since then and we have done nothing together. He has also been renovating the kitchen / living room and has took his sister with him to get stuff and just being the usual grump with me.
This week i got a text saying things had changed the last couple of months and that he wanted to be on his own for a bit. He also said he was going away a couple of days. Yesterday i met him down the town said he was going to his accounts and i said if we could talk later he said ok. Got a text at lunchtime saying he would phone me in 2 weeks. I immediately phone him and he was in a really noisy place and was talking quietly to me on the phone.
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I have been with my OH for around 8 years. Theres an age gap of 13 years he being the oldest but it has never been a problem. The last month he has been quite grumpy with me saying he wants peace and quiet for a bit. I dont live there just stay now and again but am a frequent visitor cause of the dogs etc. He hasnt been working so much the last couple of months own business so is in the house a lot, so maybe i was coming up a bit much sometimes 4 times a day so i agree to that so i stayed up at mine for lunch etc and tried to give him a couple of days off cause he was in the house more.
Bearing in mind he went a golfing holiday the middle of june to Egypt he has been in the pub nearly every nite since then and we have done nothing together. He has also been renovating the kitchen / living room and has took his sister with him to get stuff and just being the usual grump with me.
This week i got a text saying things had changed the last couple of months and that he wanted to be on his own for a bit. He also said he was going away a couple of days. Yesterday i met him down the town said he was going to his accounts and i said if we could talk later he said ok. Got a text at lunchtime saying he would phone me in 2 weeks. I immediately phone him and he was in a really noisy place and was talking quietly to me on the phone.
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