who just doesnt seem to get the idea of jumping/ cant be bothered I have tried trotting poles- fine will happily trot/ canter over but put a small cross pole up and she stops and is a bit like eek I dont know what to do, stops and then will walk over instead of jumping. No point in loose schooling as she just runs out beofre the jump. I have a lunge whip for encouragement but will not use it on her as I dont want to scare her. Ridden she is the same, go towards jump, stop and then walk over. I thought she might be better on the lunge with no interference from a rider but no better. ANy ideas?