Snow has finally gone, and trimmer came out yesterday
Lovely lady, very calm and patient with Silver - no shouting or hitting her, just gave her time to settle down.
However, Silver was just the same - if not worse than with the farrier. Farrier tends to shout at her and then she stands quiet as a mouse and doesnt put a foot wrong. By the end (took an hour to do four feet, but we got them done ), I had a squashed hand, been squashed against wall mutiple times, trimmer had been trampled etc etc.... Silver kept spinning round and going at her stable door and ramming it trying to get in. When she was done and I opened the door she didnt even wait for it to be open and barged through it and ran and hid. She was doing her white wild eyes in panic....
I dont understand how to manage this. The more we practice the worse she seems to be getting (with me), and thought someone with a quieter approach would really help her - but alas no she was still frightened.
I am relustant to trim her myself gradually as I dont have the skills to do it, and I couldnt trust myself to identify problems with so little knowledge.
She had refused point blank to pick her feet up for a week prior to yesterday - which culminated in me being bitten on Weds night. I have tried tying her up, having her loose, being in a bigger outdoor space and on a lunge... Yet when she hadnt been touched for a few months, she picked them all up relatively easily...
Lovely lady, very calm and patient with Silver - no shouting or hitting her, just gave her time to settle down.
However, Silver was just the same - if not worse than with the farrier. Farrier tends to shout at her and then she stands quiet as a mouse and doesnt put a foot wrong. By the end (took an hour to do four feet, but we got them done ), I had a squashed hand, been squashed against wall mutiple times, trimmer had been trampled etc etc.... Silver kept spinning round and going at her stable door and ramming it trying to get in. When she was done and I opened the door she didnt even wait for it to be open and barged through it and ran and hid. She was doing her white wild eyes in panic....
I dont understand how to manage this. The more we practice the worse she seems to be getting (with me), and thought someone with a quieter approach would really help her - but alas no she was still frightened.
I am relustant to trim her myself gradually as I dont have the skills to do it, and I couldnt trust myself to identify problems with so little knowledge.
She had refused point blank to pick her feet up for a week prior to yesterday - which culminated in me being bitten on Weds night. I have tried tying her up, having her loose, being in a bigger outdoor space and on a lunge... Yet when she hadnt been touched for a few months, she picked them all up relatively easily...