Some of you may remember my threads a few months ago when I was planning how to fit in horses when my baby was born. I was seriously planning to buy my first pony in the summer and ride about 4 times a week - and I really did think that it would be possible. Before I became pregnant I was completely obsessed with my 2 loan horses spending 3 hours every evening and most of the weekends with them.
So, my lovely baby is now 4 months old and what I have I done? Well I haven't even sat on a horse since I have had him. I have handed my 2 loan horses back and although I do go to the yard to brush them once a week I have no immediate plans to ride. The reason isn't really to do with money or time (although I don't have much of either). I simply want to spend as much time as possible with my little boy. I would never have believed that the bond we have would be strong enough to keep me away from the yard. One of my loan horses in particular means so much to me and I do miss her, but at the end of the day she doesn't need me like my baby does and is happy enough munching grass in the field with her friends.
I may have a few lessons in the next few months and next year I can see myself returning to becoming a weekly rider, but for the time being my plans to buy a pony are on hold. I am sure that my obsession with horses will return (I hope it does) but for now I am just going to enjoy being a mummy.
So many people have been so kind with their PMs asking how I am getting on and I am really grateful for your support and kind words. I know that I will be a nervous wreak when I do finally get on so I will be seeking out your support again for that as well!
So, my lovely baby is now 4 months old and what I have I done? Well I haven't even sat on a horse since I have had him. I have handed my 2 loan horses back and although I do go to the yard to brush them once a week I have no immediate plans to ride. The reason isn't really to do with money or time (although I don't have much of either). I simply want to spend as much time as possible with my little boy. I would never have believed that the bond we have would be strong enough to keep me away from the yard. One of my loan horses in particular means so much to me and I do miss her, but at the end of the day she doesn't need me like my baby does and is happy enough munching grass in the field with her friends.
I may have a few lessons in the next few months and next year I can see myself returning to becoming a weekly rider, but for the time being my plans to buy a pony are on hold. I am sure that my obsession with horses will return (I hope it does) but for now I am just going to enjoy being a mummy.
So many people have been so kind with their PMs asking how I am getting on and I am really grateful for your support and kind words. I know that I will be a nervous wreak when I do finally get on so I will be seeking out your support again for that as well!