In the great long list of things to do with riding I am scared of, riding in a busy arena is quite near the top. I am planning to do my first off-yard dressage test before Xmas so I have to crack this so I can cope with the warm up. Today we were riding with one friend who I often ride with, a very well-schooled dressage horse, and another horse was being lunged. I found it impossible not to feel panic stricken - particularly by the horse on the lunge. As a result I ride like a numpty and get in everyone's way. It isn't rational - Flicks is a bit of a grump and often pulls faces at passing horses but that is all. I know I need to ignore the others and just get on with it but I'm definitely not there yet. Does anyone have any tips?