Hi,
I am just wondering whether anyone else has experienced their confidence dissappearing over night almost.
Since losing Leah I have been riding other people's horses more often. Yesterday I rode a friends cob out, although he is quite green and can be boistrous I am very fond of him. We only went down the lane a little way before we decided it was really too slippy so went in to the top field where the ground was okay. I was not comfortable at all, and said he felt like he may take off with me. He has a habit of snatching the bit and sticking his head down, it is then like sitting on a precipice!! He did settle and was very good when I cantered up the hill but on the way back round he kept snatching the reins and trotting down the hill, then dropping his shoulder as if he was going to run back. I am sure my tension was making him worse.
It is unlike me to worry about things like this. Leah was by no means a novice ride, but she didn't scare me with her antics, I just used to ride through them. Since she has gone I can feel myself getting anxious about riding. I was never gun-ho but wouldn't worry. People have said I need to find my own horse again, so I can build up a trust, but I am scared I will never find a horse that I can trust like I did Leah. I know I can not replace her and wouldn't want to.
I have booked a lesson on the cob in the week so I can address some of the issues with my instructor. But has anyone out there been through this and come out the other side?
Many thanks,
Amanda
I am just wondering whether anyone else has experienced their confidence dissappearing over night almost.
Since losing Leah I have been riding other people's horses more often. Yesterday I rode a friends cob out, although he is quite green and can be boistrous I am very fond of him. We only went down the lane a little way before we decided it was really too slippy so went in to the top field where the ground was okay. I was not comfortable at all, and said he felt like he may take off with me. He has a habit of snatching the bit and sticking his head down, it is then like sitting on a precipice!! He did settle and was very good when I cantered up the hill but on the way back round he kept snatching the reins and trotting down the hill, then dropping his shoulder as if he was going to run back. I am sure my tension was making him worse.
It is unlike me to worry about things like this. Leah was by no means a novice ride, but she didn't scare me with her antics, I just used to ride through them. Since she has gone I can feel myself getting anxious about riding. I was never gun-ho but wouldn't worry. People have said I need to find my own horse again, so I can build up a trust, but I am scared I will never find a horse that I can trust like I did Leah. I know I can not replace her and wouldn't want to.
I have booked a lesson on the cob in the week so I can address some of the issues with my instructor. But has anyone out there been through this and come out the other side?
Many thanks,
Amanda