I know people say mares are often attached to one person and have a strong bond with their owner, but my mare only trusts me. My YO had to turn her out for me yesterday as I was away, and he said she was incredibly sharp, spooked and tried to gallop off with him. He said she would barely even let him put her headcollar on! With me, she is a total dobbin and will just try and graze when I bring her out/in, if she's feeling cheeky. She comes when I call and follows me round the field. I can and do walk her with my dog.
Nobody else at my yard can catch her.
On the one hand, although I am touched by her loyalty, I know that's a very human response and I am a bit worried by the fear she continues to show towards everyone else, even people she knows who have been nothing but kind to her. How do I make her less scared of people? She is better with women but obviously the world has men in it and I want her to be able to deal with that. I do wonder if, with such a strong fear response, I'll ever manage to do anything with her riding-wise without the risk of her panicking - even with me - and doing something stupid.
ETA - she is not in ridden work atm, I am looking at getting her re-started in late March/April, and would like to try and get her used to the idea of others handling her before that.
Nobody else at my yard can catch her.
On the one hand, although I am touched by her loyalty, I know that's a very human response and I am a bit worried by the fear she continues to show towards everyone else, even people she knows who have been nothing but kind to her. How do I make her less scared of people? She is better with women but obviously the world has men in it and I want her to be able to deal with that. I do wonder if, with such a strong fear response, I'll ever manage to do anything with her riding-wise without the risk of her panicking - even with me - and doing something stupid.
ETA - she is not in ridden work atm, I am looking at getting her re-started in late March/April, and would like to try and get her used to the idea of others handling her before that.