You couldn't make it up

[horseandgoatmom]

Well at least she wasn't a trainer going to a lesson in shorts..flip flops and no helmet...
Yet saying ohhh yes I GET ON THE HORSE.

TONI that used to board across the street had a trainer to that several times before she said that's it we are done.

She clearly had no intention to getting on.

 

[horseandgoatmom]

Carthorse... people have no respect for property or trespassing anymore and it's only getting worse.

And realtors showing properties don't make it any better.

I've had horse poop on my posted 33 acres.
When SONNY. had only ever been there twice....and it wasn't HIS poop.

Then before we found this place....
A realtor at a place we looked at said ohhhh
There is plenty of woods to ride in out back..
I said ohh is it a park or state forest?...

OHH I DONT KNOW WHO OWNS IT
IT'S JUST WOODS.....
WTF REALLY

Then Another place advertised having a riding arena...
Go to see it..
The ARENA is on someone else's property....
another WTF moment

The fiber optic easement at the side edge of the my property belongs to me up to my property line.
No one but fiber optic crew would have any rights to access.. it continues for miles..
I have. had NEVER gone beyond my property line cause it WASN'T MY property.

There's a gate at the road here our gate.
But I guess years ago The fiber optic did put it up for rhe prior owners
And we has bloody dirt bikes coming down Then thru the front yard
I blocked the other end of my property line
With fencing that could be un...zip tied to open in the event of a fire or emergency..
And easily re secured

They are fine with that and a couple miles up on the other road is access in.

No way was going to put up with that here
My expectation is to not get killed riding In
MY OWN YARD
cause little A-HOLES on dirt bikes
Come flying thru

 

[Trewsers]

Carthorse... people have no respect for property or trespassing anymore and it's only getting worse.

And realtors showing properties don't make it any better.

I've had horse poop on my posted 33 acres.
When SONNY. had only ever been there twice....and it wasn't HIS poop.

Then before we found this place....
A realtor at a place we looked at said ohhhh
There is plenty of woods to ride in out back..
I said ohh is it a park or state forest?...

OHH I DONT KNOW WHO OWNS IT
IT'S JUST WOODS.....
WTF REALLY

Then Another place advertised having a riding arena...
Go to see it..
The ARENA is on someone else's property....
another WTF moment

The fiber optic easement at the side edge of the my property belongs to me up to my property line.
No one but fiber optic crew would have any rights to access.. it continues for miles..
I have. had NEVER gone beyond my property line cause it WASN'T MY property.

There's a gate at the road here our gate.
But I guess years ago The fiber optic did put it up for rhe prior owners
And we has bloody dirt bikes coming down Then thru the front yard
I blocked the other end of my property line
With fencing that could be un...zip tied to open in the event of a fire or emergency..
And easily re secured

They are fine with that and a couple miles up on the other road is access in.

No way was going to put up with that here
My expectation is to not get killed riding In
MY OWN YARD
cause little A-HOLES on dirt bikes
Come flying thru

Lol yes that reminds me with the estate agent and the arena - I remember at our old place, when next door were up for sale. One day they had viewers and the agent was showing them around. I happened to be walking on MY road down to my house and he stopped me and said "oh, I'm just showing these people around, it would be okay for them to use your school wouldn't it".
I was almost choking with rage! lol
I said "no, it's PRIVATELY OWNED and for PRIVATE USE only".
I was so cross because they were constantly trying to sell on the back of our facilities. Shameless!!!

 

[horseandgoatmom]

Ugh unreal. How dare they

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

The tree being cut back l I don't think they have a leg to stand on over, but if the lorry and the trailer aren't there's I don't see how it's anything to do with them how they're parked. And the driveway is a communal area so as long as her kids aren't causing damage I don't see what you can do about it, realistically with the poor visibility I would imagine you'd be pulling out very slowly and carefully anyway so is it really that big a deal? We sometimes have young kids playing in our close unsupervised, we just ask them to be careful and stay out the way because we're moving a car and then do so very aware of the fact that they're about.

I am covering myself so that if there is an accident, given we can't see anything as we come out of our gate onto the communal DRIVEWAY not car park, we can say well we asked the owners of the vehicles to move them and if they don't and a child gets injured then we have a leg to stand on. The kids are running up and down playing at races, or on their bikes, we could be looking to the left as we can't see anything coming from that direction, and begin to inch forward and not see kids running up the side of the horsebox straight into us. We are totally blind either way. The vehicles belong to the folks at No3 and their livery person whose child is one of the ones running around, just a toddler.

 

[Trewsers]

You know, for what it's worth if it were me, I'd get mr diplomaticandtactful to get out the car and check whilst I pulled out - just a thought. Then if there are kids about he can shoo them away and sort of guide you out? Better safe than sorry and all that.

 

[horseandgoatmom]

It's awful that you have do any of it.


But today's catch phrase is...

COVER YOUR A.....
Sadly

I'm GLAD I'm as old as I am sometimes....

I hate to think where things are heading.









.

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

You know, for what it's worth if it were me, I'd get mr diplomaticandtactful to get out the car and check whilst I pulled out - just a thought. Then if there are kids about he can shoo them away and sort of guide you out? Better safe than sorry and all that.

OH's mobility isn't great and the kids are the sort of kids who would just look at your sullenly or shout at you. Not very nice at all

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

The tree being cut back l I don't think they have a leg to stand on over, but if the lorry and the trailer aren't there's I don't see how it's anything to do with them how they're parked. And the driveway is a communal area so as long as her kids aren't causing damage I don't see what you can do about it, realistically with the poor visibility I would imagine you'd be pulling out very slowly and carefully anyway so is it really that big a deal? We sometimes have young kids playing in our close unsupervised, we just ask them to be careful and stay out the way because we're moving a car and then do so very aware of the fact that they're about.

The kids would probably just stand in the way even more blocking the road as they follow the example of their parents who have spent the last year intimidating and threatening us.

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

Interesting development, the lady who moved into the house with her partner is splitting up with him after six months, has been hassled and threatened by the neighbours and the livery person as well. They 'cultivated' her at first but now they are absolutely horrible to her. She was here till 1am and is coming back tomorrow to try to draft up notes for a lawyer to advise her before she is financially screwed as well as emotionally wrecked. One example of the neighbours kids.....The oldest one was not behaving well, so she said to her, if you can't play nicely, don't come here and play. Kid replied do you like his son? She replied I have said to you if you can't be nice, then don't come here. Kid then tells son to cry. And goes to his father and says that his partner doesn't like his son and his son was crying. Her partner belatedly decides to believe her and not the child but the child is still allowed to play on their land. His ex partner turned up with a camera and asked her to come down the road with her as she wanted to film her - as if it was not on her property it could be used. All she got was a film of being told I do not want to talk to you so please leave. Poor cow. I remember when we were invited to their house for drinks I said to OH i give it six months as he was putting her down all the time, really nasty. She says the minute she sold her house and they bought that one together he changed instantly and becoming completely controlling, she has had to block him from everything and is terrified of him. I just wish when she moved in - as i liked her very much but couldn't stand him - that she hadn't been suckered by the neighbours until she saw them in their true light. And also if she wants to sell the house, the muck trailer - which she says muck from it blows up into their yard - and the horsebox are a major issue. Anyway she is no state to write anything coherent so will try to remember all the stuff and put it into some sort of order for her so that a family lawyer can help her. Her partner has managed to get a crooked valuer to value the house at only £25K more than they paid for it when it should be around £100K......she needs a good lawyer NOW to stop being totally taken to the cleaners, as she is now on meds etc as he has terrorised her so much

 

[horseandgoatmom]

Omg that poor woman.

The kids around there sound horrible too

I hope the house GETS SOLD
and the horrible guy doesn't some how manage to get it and stay there .

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

Omg that poor woman.

The kids around there sound horrible too

I hope the house GETS SOLD
and the horrible guy doesn't some how manage to get it and stay there .

if i have anything to do with it she will get top $ and the house will be sold on. She's very vulnerable and not clued up legally while he is and she could get really taken to the cleaners

 

[carthorse]

@diplomaticandtactful be very careful getting involved, she wouldn't be the first person to say and do all this only to get back together with him and you become the bad person.

 

[Trewsers]

@diplomaticandtactful be very careful getting involved, she wouldn't be the first person to say and do all this only to get back together with him and you become the bad person.

That is sadly very true. Approach with caution.

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

@diplomaticandtactful be very careful getting involved, she wouldn't be the first person to say and do all this only to get back together with him and you become the bad person.

Not if you had seen her, she is already moving her stuff out and storing at her parents. All i will do is give her some good lawyers, who are not part of the local mafia and will give her independent advice and write something for her to give to them so that it is coherent and consise and they can work with it. I have condenced 4 hours of talking into about 2 pages of text.

 

[diplomaticandtactful]

That is sadly very true. Approach with caution.

i have hardly seen her in the last six weeks, she is not there except when she has to be. I can only give her some stuff that will help her find the right people to fight her corner, otherwise she will be screwed financially for life. She has a few good cards but she needs to present them to her lawyer in a way that they will use to effect, to call his bluff. At the moment mentally she could hardly write a letter to save herself as she is so worn out and stressed. Been there know how it is.

 

[Trewsers]

i have hardly seen her in the last six weeks, she is not there except when she has to be. I can only give her some stuff that will help her find the right people to fight her corner, otherwise she will be screwed financially for life. She has a few good cards but she needs to present them to her lawyer in a way that they will use to effect, to call his bluff. At the moment mentally she could hardly write a letter to save herself as she is so worn out and stressed. Been there know how it is.

Poor lass, I hope it works out for her in the end.

 

[Huggy]

@diplomaticandtactful be very careful getting involved, she wouldn't be the first person to say and do all this only to get back together with him and you become the bad person.

Oh so true. My daughter was with a horrible man - they split 4 years ago, to our delight. But she took him back, only to split again, permanently this time, 3 years ago. He tried to make her move area so we were out of her life, did not want her to do nursing degree (that's why he left 2nd time, because she went ahead. He thought she couldn't do it if he left, and that's where we came in with childcare etc) She's just qualified, and he's suddenly really nasty again, whenever he picks up the children. Can't stand seeing her riding the crest of her wave. I hope your neighbour doesn't go back with him d&t - I have my daughter back - beautiful, independent and her own woman again. These knuckle dragging controlling men cause immeasurable damage.

 

[Kite_Rider]

@diplomaticandtactful be very careful getting involved, she wouldn't be the first person to say and do all this only to get back together with him and you become the bad person.

I had this done to me years ago, my neighbour used to get beaten by her husband, one day it was so bad she was screaming ‘Lynne, please help, please call the police, help me please’ between punches from her husband the sound of him hitting her was awful and I did phone the police, they came, they arrested him and got an ambulance to take her to hospital, took a statement from me and three days later he’s back home with her. She came round a few days later when he’d gone to work and let rip at me for interfering, said how he was talking about leaving her and it was all my fault for calling the police! I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, needless to say next time it happened despite her begging for help again, I just shut my windows, turned up my music and left them too it. I will help anyone, especially someone in real trouble, but I’d never help her again.

 

[Huggy]

I had this done to me years ago, my neighbour used to get beaten by her husband, one day it was so bad she was screaming ‘Lynne, please help, please call the police, help me please’ between punches from her husband the sound of him hitting her was awful and I did phone the police, they came, they arrested him and got an ambulance to take her to hospital, took a statement from me and three days later he’s back home with her. She came round a few days later when he’d gone to work and let rip at me for interfering, said how he was talking about leaving her and it was all my fault for calling the police! I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, needless to say next time it happened despite her begging for help again, I just shut my windows, turned up my music and left them too it. I will help anyone, especially someone in real trouble, but I’d never help her again.

Thank god it never was physical with my daughter, but there was so much gaslighting, and she became so unhappy. We just had to sit back and be there if she needed us. She's out socialising nowadays, looking great, and it's killing him. She loathes him now,so that ship has definitely sailed.