thanks for all the replies. i completely agree it's too long.. but wanted to make sure so i can approach my barn manager about it. i can't go at night as it's over an hour drive and once a day (midday) is all i have time for with work/family/etc. if i had my way i'd just move to the barn but my daughter isn't too keen.
i'm worried about haynets especially since one has respiratory problems already.
i'd like to ask that mine get an extra couple flakes of hay later in the evening... problem is i know my requests aren't well recieved. like i said they have always done things this way and think it's fine. also there are 18 other boarders who seem to be fine with it. :S
i don't want to move my horses as they are one of the few barns even remotely close to me that has a pasture so they can graze and play with the other horses which i feel is so important. i am really happy with the barn except for the long stretch at night without hay and the lack of bedding which i'm also trying to work on (i put up another post about this).
if anyone has ideas on how to convince her or links to studies showing the effects of not having hay for that long i'd love it. i'm happy to pay more and always help with feeds/take in/etc when i'm there but don't think she's very open to individual feed/bedding routines.