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PatchyPony
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Ri came today and spent time with me working on the ground as well as ridden. She reckons that maybe ive been getting a bit het up when Im dealing with Tally's behaviour and being a bit too 'strong' - inadvertantly and scaring her I was kind of worried this may be the case, as ive noticed myself getting wound up and paniky if im feelng underconfident. She also thinks i was too 'challenging' when trying to do join up when i couldnt catch her and have scared her off.
Anyway, she showed me a some really good massage techniques for bonding with her and she loves it!... i really enjoyed this too as T looked really happy. and what body language to use
Ridden wise Tally was really good - i was rubbish! I have a real problem in that i havent realised im not riding with my legs on, then when i do use leg it tends to be heel and tally goes "yeee-hah! ok mum!" I physically found it so hard, nearly impossible to put my leg further back and try to wrap it round her - have to work on that!! RI noticed that when I go to stroke or pat her neck when im riding she tenses up straight away as if anticipating a smack! then she relaxes, poor girl.
She was such a good girl
Anyway, she showed me a some really good massage techniques for bonding with her and she loves it!... i really enjoyed this too as T looked really happy. and what body language to use
Ridden wise Tally was really good - i was rubbish! I have a real problem in that i havent realised im not riding with my legs on, then when i do use leg it tends to be heel and tally goes "yeee-hah! ok mum!" I physically found it so hard, nearly impossible to put my leg further back and try to wrap it round her - have to work on that!! RI noticed that when I go to stroke or pat her neck when im riding she tenses up straight away as if anticipating a smack! then she relaxes, poor girl.
She was such a good girl