Hello! Not posted for a while and couldn't decide where to post this but as i am a mature rider who generally gets the ponies..i'm afraid it's you lot that'll have to put up with me
I've been riding at my RS for nearly 4 years now and since i did a spectacular somersault off a big chunky cob last year and hurt myself a bit the YO who is our main RI said i was overhorsed and got me on the ponies. So for months now i've been getting used to Star, a 5 year old, fell/dales type mare who is still growing, is very bum high and has no shoulders to speak of! I'm getting used to her quirks and it's been a challenge as i've found it hard to trust her due to my own fears. She's a cracking little pony, i've hacked out on her quite a bit and am even learning to jump.
But last night it all went a bit flat again and i'm struggling to understand it. I have a lot of problems with anxiety and my RI is always on at me to be more positive. Do other RS riders feel that with only one lesson a week that it takes some time to settle in each lesson? On top of that i was away last week so have missed a lesson. The first canter was horrific and i ended up getting a canter on the long side so she was on the wrong leg and i got told off. My RI as great as she is, often puts me on edge with her voice and things she says. I know she has to be strict but i was feeling pretty fragile last night (just lost my job) and my mind wasn't really on the job as it were!
Another questions for pony riders...my RI is always saying that canter is another gait not a faster gait, than trot. But Star races round the arena and the more i lean back and try to slow her down, the more she fights. Yet when i give her her head, she still races off and is more likely to spook! I know i tense up which doesn't help. Last night she spooked at the traffic as we set off so we ended up in the middle of the school and i got blamed for it all. Well, yes i suppose it was my fault though!
Then the second canter i was really determined but still felt really unbalanced and i felt like a Thelwell rider trying to keep her on the track! RI was pleased as she was getting frustrated and i feel like i'm constantly making excuses for myself. I know she's busy, but her attitude seems to be, well i can do it so why arn't i? Pony is just soooo fast...one of the other girls from the lesson did say to me afterwards that not only does she go fast, but her little legs make it seem even faster. So i'm not the only one that sees this.
I love riding ponies, don't get me wrong but i'm the only pony rider in my group that is an adult and feel i've hit a wall
PS oops, went on a bit there, soz
I've been riding at my RS for nearly 4 years now and since i did a spectacular somersault off a big chunky cob last year and hurt myself a bit the YO who is our main RI said i was overhorsed and got me on the ponies. So for months now i've been getting used to Star, a 5 year old, fell/dales type mare who is still growing, is very bum high and has no shoulders to speak of! I'm getting used to her quirks and it's been a challenge as i've found it hard to trust her due to my own fears. She's a cracking little pony, i've hacked out on her quite a bit and am even learning to jump.
But last night it all went a bit flat again and i'm struggling to understand it. I have a lot of problems with anxiety and my RI is always on at me to be more positive. Do other RS riders feel that with only one lesson a week that it takes some time to settle in each lesson? On top of that i was away last week so have missed a lesson. The first canter was horrific and i ended up getting a canter on the long side so she was on the wrong leg and i got told off. My RI as great as she is, often puts me on edge with her voice and things she says. I know she has to be strict but i was feeling pretty fragile last night (just lost my job) and my mind wasn't really on the job as it were!
Another questions for pony riders...my RI is always saying that canter is another gait not a faster gait, than trot. But Star races round the arena and the more i lean back and try to slow her down, the more she fights. Yet when i give her her head, she still races off and is more likely to spook! I know i tense up which doesn't help. Last night she spooked at the traffic as we set off so we ended up in the middle of the school and i got blamed for it all. Well, yes i suppose it was my fault though!
Then the second canter i was really determined but still felt really unbalanced and i felt like a Thelwell rider trying to keep her on the track! RI was pleased as she was getting frustrated and i feel like i'm constantly making excuses for myself. I know she's busy, but her attitude seems to be, well i can do it so why arn't i? Pony is just soooo fast...one of the other girls from the lesson did say to me afterwards that not only does she go fast, but her little legs make it seem even faster. So i'm not the only one that sees this.
I love riding ponies, don't get me wrong but i'm the only pony rider in my group that is an adult and feel i've hit a wall
PS oops, went on a bit there, soz