I have recently got a sec D mare who is lovely but I am finding her strong in certain situations. She came to me in a snaffle and flash but i was told by the woman who sold her to me that she had a very soft mouth so I dropped the flash and put a french link in as this was what i had. She was really strong in it and kept trying to tank off whenever we trotted. So I changed back to a snaffle and took her to a livery yard for 2 weeks to school her and have lessons. This worked well and I feel I have more control. The tanking off has virtually stopped. Then today I rode her to the school up the road and she was so heavy on the right hand. Constantly pulling and felt like she couldn't feel the bit at all. In the school she was nappy (this is not unusual) wouldn't bend and again very bad on the right side. So we worked through this. Canter transitions were the best they have ever been but went like a motorbike round the school and no amount of half halting would stop her. We then hacked the long way home and a few times she tried to turn around but was easy enough to keep going. When myself and my friend split up then she tries to bugger off home (this again is a regular thing when we leave the other horses) and we have to do lots of walk halk transitions to prevent her bolting.
My question is what bit should i use to help me feel like if there ever is a time she decides not to listen and buggers off i can stop her. Also i am worried about giving her a hard mouth tring to stop this leaning problem on the right rein. Sorry its long. Oh yes she throws her head a bit aswellto get away from the light contact i have with her.
My question is what bit should i use to help me feel like if there ever is a time she decides not to listen and buggers off i can stop her. Also i am worried about giving her a hard mouth tring to stop this leaning problem on the right rein. Sorry its long. Oh yes she throws her head a bit aswellto get away from the light contact i have with her.