My husband and I are coming back to riding in our mid (OK, late) thirties and I am curious to know if there are any accepted guidelines as to what weight a horse of a particular height should carry. Obviously, this will vary according to the confirmation of the horse and cobby/heavy hunter types are clearly weight carriers but what about Arabs who have a reputation for stamina beyond their size? Any views (and I suspect there are a number) would be appreciated. At 5'8" and 147lbs, I'm not a sylph but my unfortunate husband encounters very diverse reactions from riding stables. He's 5'11" and a very fit and compact 14st+ (196-200lbs) - either he get's a relatively normal TB type or they mutter darkly and wheel out the Shire x!