Okay - those people who have read my threads will know that I have a great instructor and am really happy with the way my lessons are going. But..... I am wondering if I should push outside my comfort zone?
I am thinking about expanding my lessons, and also going along to a school nearer me for group lessons. Problem is I cannot bring myself to do it! I would like to do this because:
- I would get to practice some of my new-found skills on different horses.
- I could ride on the weeks I miss with my usual instructor because one or both of us is busy during my normal time slot.
- I get to ride a different type of horse. My current rides are what I consider to be non-typical riding school horses. They are sharp off the leg, reliable (no bucking or tanking off) and are very responsive - so if my aids are wrong, I go in the wrong direction That makes for a lovely time - but I am not learning to cope with horses that need pushing on, or nap back to the others in a group lesson.
- I would get to go hacking over summer.
- They have a lovely looking pure-bred Andalusian I am itching to try riding! Cannot get it out of my head
But but but but.....
I cannot bring myself to go into the yard and book the lessons. I've been once before for a try-out session and they were fine (I just couldn't afford to go to both places last year). I just dread getting to know the routines and people in a new place - or what they will think of me turning up again 9 months later.
As for group lessons - I am dreading that idea after the luxury of private lessons! I think I have a horror of it all being like previous experiences elsewhere - nappy horses, me being the dunce of the class, not being able to opt out if I feel nervous about something etc. etc.
But but but but.....
If I ever buy or loan a horse of my own, this is likely to be the yard I would want them kept at - it is really nearby, seems well run and takes liveries as well running the riding school. Who knows - I may even find a first share there....
Argghhhhh I'm terrible!!!!
I am thinking about expanding my lessons, and also going along to a school nearer me for group lessons. Problem is I cannot bring myself to do it! I would like to do this because:
- I would get to practice some of my new-found skills on different horses.
- I could ride on the weeks I miss with my usual instructor because one or both of us is busy during my normal time slot.
- I get to ride a different type of horse. My current rides are what I consider to be non-typical riding school horses. They are sharp off the leg, reliable (no bucking or tanking off) and are very responsive - so if my aids are wrong, I go in the wrong direction That makes for a lovely time - but I am not learning to cope with horses that need pushing on, or nap back to the others in a group lesson.
- I would get to go hacking over summer.
- They have a lovely looking pure-bred Andalusian I am itching to try riding! Cannot get it out of my head
But but but but.....
I cannot bring myself to go into the yard and book the lessons. I've been once before for a try-out session and they were fine (I just couldn't afford to go to both places last year). I just dread getting to know the routines and people in a new place - or what they will think of me turning up again 9 months later.
As for group lessons - I am dreading that idea after the luxury of private lessons! I think I have a horror of it all being like previous experiences elsewhere - nappy horses, me being the dunce of the class, not being able to opt out if I feel nervous about something etc. etc.
But but but but.....
If I ever buy or loan a horse of my own, this is likely to be the yard I would want them kept at - it is really nearby, seems well run and takes liveries as well running the riding school. Who knows - I may even find a first share there....
Argghhhhh I'm terrible!!!!