I've had my sharer for about 10 months. I'm happy to share my horse, it helps me out when I'm at work. My sharer has to groom, tack up and ride - no chores. I always make sure there is someone for her to hack out with and my friend even picks her up and gives her a lift to and from the stables.
She doesn't have set days, she can ride any week day that she wants. I raised an issue about her riding a while ago and she got very upset (she is a complete novice). I was in a huff and advertised for another sharer, but I decided to give her another chance. That was about three months ago...she has worked hard to improve her riding since then.
My friend who gives her a lift got a text yesterday saying 'Has Popdog advertised xxxx for share, I've seen an advert that looks like it's for xxxx?'. My friend said she didn't know anything about it, which is true as it was just heat of the moment thing on my part. Then out of the blue a couple of hours later I get a reply to my advert from an unknown email (I've had no replys in two months, and it didn't show my name). So it feels like a coincidence but maybe I'm reading to much into it? I've not answered the email...yet.
Then my sharer emails me at 9pm last night (she hasn't ridden for two weeks as my friend couldn't give her a lift as her children are on school holiday) and says she will do two days next week. I say 'fine that's great'. She then emails me back and says she can only do one day next week after all.
Am I being messed with? She never tells me how her ride was, she rarely responds to my emails or texts and my friend is feeling like an unpaid taxi service.
For those of you who share or are sharers...what sort of arrangement do you have? Do you keep in touch via phone/email, and do you think I'm a bit daft for providing tranport and an experienced riding buddy for a novice sharer. Should they be independant? Your opinions on this would be helpful...I really don't know what other people get from sharing
She doesn't have set days, she can ride any week day that she wants. I raised an issue about her riding a while ago and she got very upset (she is a complete novice). I was in a huff and advertised for another sharer, but I decided to give her another chance. That was about three months ago...she has worked hard to improve her riding since then.
My friend who gives her a lift got a text yesterday saying 'Has Popdog advertised xxxx for share, I've seen an advert that looks like it's for xxxx?'. My friend said she didn't know anything about it, which is true as it was just heat of the moment thing on my part. Then out of the blue a couple of hours later I get a reply to my advert from an unknown email (I've had no replys in two months, and it didn't show my name). So it feels like a coincidence but maybe I'm reading to much into it? I've not answered the email...yet.
Then my sharer emails me at 9pm last night (she hasn't ridden for two weeks as my friend couldn't give her a lift as her children are on school holiday) and says she will do two days next week. I say 'fine that's great'. She then emails me back and says she can only do one day next week after all.
Am I being messed with? She never tells me how her ride was, she rarely responds to my emails or texts and my friend is feeling like an unpaid taxi service.
For those of you who share or are sharers...what sort of arrangement do you have? Do you keep in touch via phone/email, and do you think I'm a bit daft for providing tranport and an experienced riding buddy for a novice sharer. Should they be independant? Your opinions on this would be helpful...I really don't know what other people get from sharing