New instructor has persuaded me for several perfectly sensible reasons that I should sell my current horse and buy another. He hasn't done anything wrong just too green and she has found him a wonderful home where he is currently on trial. BUT she keeps emailing me to say How wonderfully well he goes for Helen, How wonderfully he boxed for Helen, How wonderfully he jumped for Helen and how it was worth it all just to see the happy smile on her face etc.Its breaking my heart and I can't believe how insensitive and brain dead she is being!!! Do I want to come and visit him in Helens yard Short answer NO.I can go anytime I want, I know because Helen has told me herself.Just screaming really.