Looking for any advice, or perhaps the answer will just be to take it slow.
Before Brodie's surgery my confidence was good and I felt we had a nice bond where he trusted me with most things we met out hacking.
During his recovery I've been doing lots of grooming and walks in hand but we've lost some of the trust in each other and my confidence has dropped alot.
I've been taking him out round the roads and he's been very good but feels like he just can't wait to get home. And I've been a little nervous.
Today I decided to try down the bridleway but unfortunately within 5 mins we met the trotter on the road which caused me to have a bit of a meltdown. I hopped off as thought Brodie may panic and he stood there like a rock bless him. The trotter completely freaked (I'm assuming at my hi viz) and skidded across the road and then received a huge crack from the guys whip, poor pony. The whip noise unsettled Brodie but managed to calm him down. Tried to get back on and Brodie turned for home and tried to trot off. Again feel like he just doesn't want to be out with me. I'm going to hack in company next time it's just hard to find people to go with as we've only been going out for half an hour.
Anyway decided to do a loop that meant I wouldn't meet the trotter again (for my sake not Brodie's) We were out for about 45 mins in total and all was fine until we met a log that Brodie has never seen before. He went into complete meltdown and was backing up, snorting and shaking. Not like him at all. I tried to let him stand there and realise it was only a log but he really wanted to run away. So I hopped off again. I'm not sure if I should stay on board but my default is to jump off. I went over and touched the log and Brodie then couldn't care less and came and had a sniff.
I'm just thinking now that I've tried to do too much too soon and should of gone out in company, I'd only planned to go a short way down the bridleway but the trotters scare me so much.
Any tips for what I can do on the ground and in the saddle to help restore both our confidence and trust?
Before Brodie's surgery my confidence was good and I felt we had a nice bond where he trusted me with most things we met out hacking.
During his recovery I've been doing lots of grooming and walks in hand but we've lost some of the trust in each other and my confidence has dropped alot.
I've been taking him out round the roads and he's been very good but feels like he just can't wait to get home. And I've been a little nervous.
Today I decided to try down the bridleway but unfortunately within 5 mins we met the trotter on the road which caused me to have a bit of a meltdown. I hopped off as thought Brodie may panic and he stood there like a rock bless him. The trotter completely freaked (I'm assuming at my hi viz) and skidded across the road and then received a huge crack from the guys whip, poor pony. The whip noise unsettled Brodie but managed to calm him down. Tried to get back on and Brodie turned for home and tried to trot off. Again feel like he just doesn't want to be out with me. I'm going to hack in company next time it's just hard to find people to go with as we've only been going out for half an hour.
Anyway decided to do a loop that meant I wouldn't meet the trotter again (for my sake not Brodie's) We were out for about 45 mins in total and all was fine until we met a log that Brodie has never seen before. He went into complete meltdown and was backing up, snorting and shaking. Not like him at all. I tried to let him stand there and realise it was only a log but he really wanted to run away. So I hopped off again. I'm not sure if I should stay on board but my default is to jump off. I went over and touched the log and Brodie then couldn't care less and came and had a sniff.
I'm just thinking now that I've tried to do too much too soon and should of gone out in company, I'd only planned to go a short way down the bridleway but the trotters scare me so much.
Any tips for what I can do on the ground and in the saddle to help restore both our confidence and trust?