Okay this could be long. I will try and be brief. MIL is stuck in hospital and as yet we don't know what is wrong. OH and I have been doing our best to visit daily and its a four hour round trip - so quite tiring but necessary.
SIL lives in Canada and has decided to come over for 6 weeks with 9 year old son. She is leaving her husband behind. She can drive and has held a licence for 15 years plus. OH and I suspect she has no marriage and is on anti depressants as we have had hints from MIL about this - we do know she has a terrible phobia about getting cancer - and has never been right since her dad died when she was a teenager.
Now, OH's family are very secretive and these things don't get talked about - you just have to piece things together and draw your own conclusions. Asking outright leads to temper outbursts from MIL and then tears - so we haven't pursued that avenue. SIL is moody and unapproachable so no point trying to be honest with her. Thing is OH was glad she was coming until last night whilst visiting his mum. When he suggested his sister be put on his mum's car insurance she ignored him and tried to change the subject! She then later said we could use her car (we don't need it we have our own!!!). So, OH mentioned it again and she gave the excuse that the policy needed renewing. This morning we have done that and put his sister on the policy. But we have found out that his mum fibbed last night - she told us sister was on it every summer when she came on her annual visit but according to brokers she has not been on it for 2 years? This ties in with when we found out about her depression. So, is there any medical reason why she cannot drive if taking tabs? OH takes mild ones and is fine to drive. Could there be a reason?
Thing is, OH is cheesed off as he was lookin forward to having the pressure eased by his sister but it looks now like she is going to expect to be ferried about by us!!!! Like we haven't enough to do!!
Sorry for long post - does anyone know if they can make you unfit to drive?
SIL lives in Canada and has decided to come over for 6 weeks with 9 year old son. She is leaving her husband behind. She can drive and has held a licence for 15 years plus. OH and I suspect she has no marriage and is on anti depressants as we have had hints from MIL about this - we do know she has a terrible phobia about getting cancer - and has never been right since her dad died when she was a teenager.
Now, OH's family are very secretive and these things don't get talked about - you just have to piece things together and draw your own conclusions. Asking outright leads to temper outbursts from MIL and then tears - so we haven't pursued that avenue. SIL is moody and unapproachable so no point trying to be honest with her. Thing is OH was glad she was coming until last night whilst visiting his mum. When he suggested his sister be put on his mum's car insurance she ignored him and tried to change the subject! She then later said we could use her car (we don't need it we have our own!!!). So, OH mentioned it again and she gave the excuse that the policy needed renewing. This morning we have done that and put his sister on the policy. But we have found out that his mum fibbed last night - she told us sister was on it every summer when she came on her annual visit but according to brokers she has not been on it for 2 years? This ties in with when we found out about her depression. So, is there any medical reason why she cannot drive if taking tabs? OH takes mild ones and is fine to drive. Could there be a reason?
Thing is, OH is cheesed off as he was lookin forward to having the pressure eased by his sister but it looks now like she is going to expect to be ferried about by us!!!! Like we haven't enough to do!!
Sorry for long post - does anyone know if they can make you unfit to drive?