Long story so I will keep as short as I can.
before Christmas I was riding Ginger when I commented that he was so slow and I could see why he was an Ex racer when one of the other ladies yelled out you should try xxxxx horses. I yelled back 'no way their mad' while laughing
This is nothing that I have not said to her in jest and a lot nicer than most of the yard have said about her horses. Nothing more said.
Last night I was riding Ginger when one of the girls came up to me and saying that I was the cause of a facebook (arrggg) argument. Someone had told the owner what I had said she took it as me slagging her off and bad mouthed me all over the internet. This was challenged by a couple of friends and she delete the comments. I never saw it.
I have to say I saw red:devil:, How dare this kid bad mouth me talking about being slagged off behind her back then post it on the net that I am a (insert you own bad words here) cow and if I have a problem speak to her face. OK that's fine if I had said anything at all and if I had I would of said it to her face.
So I called her and told her that I don't have the time or the motivation and to soddening old to bad mouth her or anyone else for that matter and that she needs to think about her actions. She put the phone down on me. Then sent a text saying we will talk at the yard.
So tonight I got to the yard and went straight round to talk to her. I have to say my energy level was high but the first words out my mouth where I believe we need to clear the air. she tried to tell me that she put nothing on facebook about me. The girl that told me was stood there and said that I knew what was put on as she told me!!! we exchanged a lot of heated words and her mother (who is not a small lady) joined in. It got a little nasty (I did not say anything horrid just stuck to the facts).
She was getting really nasty and screamed at me 'if you don't shut up I will thump you' well I have no idea what she thought I would do but I just stood there and said in my best voice 'go on then' on the next breath she was saying to her mum. I'm messed in the head tell her to go away.
Oh dear. I hate bullies and that is what they are I just don't think they expected that reply or someone to stand and have it out with them.
I got home to night to a text message from her mother saying sorry.
That has just topped an already oop: week
before Christmas I was riding Ginger when I commented that he was so slow and I could see why he was an Ex racer when one of the other ladies yelled out you should try xxxxx horses. I yelled back 'no way their mad' while laughing
This is nothing that I have not said to her in jest and a lot nicer than most of the yard have said about her horses. Nothing more said.
Last night I was riding Ginger when one of the girls came up to me and saying that I was the cause of a facebook (arrggg) argument. Someone had told the owner what I had said she took it as me slagging her off and bad mouthed me all over the internet. This was challenged by a couple of friends and she delete the comments. I never saw it.
I have to say I saw red:devil:, How dare this kid bad mouth me talking about being slagged off behind her back then post it on the net that I am a (insert you own bad words here) cow and if I have a problem speak to her face. OK that's fine if I had said anything at all and if I had I would of said it to her face.
So I called her and told her that I don't have the time or the motivation and to soddening old to bad mouth her or anyone else for that matter and that she needs to think about her actions. She put the phone down on me. Then sent a text saying we will talk at the yard.
So tonight I got to the yard and went straight round to talk to her. I have to say my energy level was high but the first words out my mouth where I believe we need to clear the air. she tried to tell me that she put nothing on facebook about me. The girl that told me was stood there and said that I knew what was put on as she told me!!! we exchanged a lot of heated words and her mother (who is not a small lady) joined in. It got a little nasty (I did not say anything horrid just stuck to the facts).
She was getting really nasty and screamed at me 'if you don't shut up I will thump you' well I have no idea what she thought I would do but I just stood there and said in my best voice 'go on then' on the next breath she was saying to her mum. I'm messed in the head tell her to go away.
Oh dear. I hate bullies and that is what they are I just don't think they expected that reply or someone to stand and have it out with them.
I got home to night to a text message from her mother saying sorry.
That has just topped an already oop: week