I have been really interested reading and following this thread .. and I think I will comment.
I was hoping that you would mention this .. but I'll ask anyways.
Have you ever trained a horse (a young horse at that) to be broken in??
I don't mean to sound negative or rude .. but to be honest I don't think you have. My reasons - 1. You think that it's time to get a bridle for his 'big head'. I mean, come on, unless your doing inhand showing, there is no point. He is still growing - like duh. He isn't even two - he is still maturing to his destined shape. So I would NOT recomend a bridle. You have NO use for it .. he will still need his teeth done anyways .. and plus, Your NOT riding.
2. You think, and I will quote,
well she just doesnt want me to get hurt. (I thought that was what she was paying me for)
. Sorry - but do you honestly think that someone would PAY to get you hurt?? Or even want you hurt?? Do you think your going to get hurt?? If you think this, I personally think you should step away from the horse. If your willing to alow yourself to get into a position to get hurt, why would you?? This horse almost sounds dangerous towards you.
And now to answer your question of ..
BUT WHAT DO YOU THINK? Is this really too soon to sit on the horse and reenforce what has already been taught from the ground?
YES
Ofcoarse I think it's way too early to sit on that poor horse. He's hardly even two yet, and I don't give a flip if you want to get up and 'test' him out or what ever ...
Yes, I do put this harshly because you MUST understand that this horse isn't even two - It may not seem a big deal yet .. but there is honestly no rush!! This horse obviously has a career of being ridden for the rest of his life .. at least alow him to be grown up enough to deal with this!!!!
I will also point out, you said you have been working with this horse for a few months. If I am training a horse, like Missy, I wouldn't even consider sitting on her back unless I have confidence in her, and she has trust and confidence in me to show her the way through. And because I have waited - I have had no accidents. I know it seems supernatural .. but think about it. I spent over 6 months with her ... more than that, and I have sat on her .. what .. 4-6 times?? Only ever in walk. And I have never had any accidents, she is calm when I do ride, is relaxed and trusts me through difficult situations. The opposite was G - she didn't wait to gain confidence and jumped straight up. She has fallen off about 5++ times, and Missy can't confide in her .. example - she wouldnt walk through water. Fair enough, her first time. G tried for 10 mins then gave up. I took over, walked her straight in.
Sure, it doesnt seem a lot and prob wont effect you in any way .. but geez. Common sense please? That's all it is ... I personally do NOT believe in backing a horse until at LEAST the age of 3. I am strong about that .. but thats just me.
I do not blame his owner for 'freaking out' .. I would have to if you asked me.
So .. question time:
- how many (if any) horses have you trained before?
- What have you done with him so far?
- what else do you plan to do with him?
- How much do you trust this horse?
- More importantly .. how much does the horse trust you?
- Could you lead that horse past something scarry or through water for the first time or past barking dogs without him freaking out?
- Just out of interest .. what was the .. erge to ride him?? I am not discriminating .. I am just curious