I have just found out today that the 9yr old girl who i have riding carn was seen hitting my other horse jazz with a bucket WTF
She was walking through the field with a bucket jazz came over to inspect normal behaviour then followed her again normal behaviour and something i woud expect any horse to do if your in their field...anyway for whatever reason she turned and smacked jazz twice with the bucket he hadnt done anything to warrent being hit with the bucket!! And would explain why Jazz has been bit odd with me catching him last couple of days!
I have also found out that she has fed carn whipped cream!!! Now i've have said to them before carn isnt allowed any treats cos he has had lami in the pass, but they have given him mints but i've over looked this as they dont feed him to many, but to find out he was given whipped cream and i also suspect but dont know that she has been adding feed from the other horses into carns feed when i'm not there...
I dont know what to do as the girl is only 9yrs old but her behaviour towards my horse is totally unacceptable...
I have allowed her to ride carn as i've needed a rider for him and she needed a pony to ride so could have more lessons and carn needed schooling...the girl doesnt have a stable home life and is bullied at school so i was happy to allow her to have her 'own' pony to ride but i cant allow her behaviour and her temper tantrums to go without her being held accountable for her actions.
I am thinking of grounding her from riding carn all wkend and she can clean the tack (something she wont do) but how do i approach this with a child how do i say it? I'm not a mother so i dont know how to speak to a 9yr old to tell her off but making her think about her actions??
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She was walking through the field with a bucket jazz came over to inspect normal behaviour then followed her again normal behaviour and something i woud expect any horse to do if your in their field...anyway for whatever reason she turned and smacked jazz twice with the bucket he hadnt done anything to warrent being hit with the bucket!! And would explain why Jazz has been bit odd with me catching him last couple of days!
I have also found out that she has fed carn whipped cream!!! Now i've have said to them before carn isnt allowed any treats cos he has had lami in the pass, but they have given him mints but i've over looked this as they dont feed him to many, but to find out he was given whipped cream and i also suspect but dont know that she has been adding feed from the other horses into carns feed when i'm not there...
I dont know what to do as the girl is only 9yrs old but her behaviour towards my horse is totally unacceptable...
I have allowed her to ride carn as i've needed a rider for him and she needed a pony to ride so could have more lessons and carn needed schooling...the girl doesnt have a stable home life and is bullied at school so i was happy to allow her to have her 'own' pony to ride but i cant allow her behaviour and her temper tantrums to go without her being held accountable for her actions.
I am thinking of grounding her from riding carn all wkend and she can clean the tack (something she wont do) but how do i approach this with a child how do i say it? I'm not a mother so i dont know how to speak to a 9yr old to tell her off but making her think about her actions??
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