I had a lesson ths morning & now all I want to do is sleep I'm so tired. I already ache in places so I dread to think how I'll feel tomorrow, it may well be painkillers before I ride.
The reason? His lordship is in spring mode - arrogant, rude & bolshy. He wasn't exactly polite in the stable this morning & there was a definate "discussion" about bandages but then he calmed down. Warmed up quietly enough though he was rather inattentive & slpw to reapond. Then asked him to start working, to give some activity, bend & softness. Nothing that he can't do easily but he just wasn't playing, all he wanted to do was set against me & bowl on through the contact. Half halt, lateral flexion, transitions, changes of rein - nothing was working. If I started to get through he'd just try to yank the rein away & then set his neck & shoulder - not amusing or easy to resist on a 16.2 ID.
So we stopped (I needed to get my breathe back anyway!) & had a long chat with my RI without the distraction of riding at the same time. We both agreed he was being incredibly rude & trying his best to bully me. She was the one that brought up the spring idea, it sounds daft but we seem to have this same problem every year - it seems the grass starts to grow, the mares start coming into season, his manners leave the country & he firmly believes he's God! The answer seems to be work, coming down on any undesirable behaviour like a ton of bricks, a very positive determined attitude & occassionally nerves of steel.
Once I'd got my breath back we started again with a very different attitude from me. Any aids were to be listened to instantly - if I needed to ask twice the second ask was a telling off. He yanked the rein I yanked right back & sent him strongly forward. Bulldozering meant halt, rein back then go forward politely. And if he'd got the energy to fight then the work wasn't hard enough so we upped the ante. Fortunately the paddy never progressed to bucking & running off & after about 10min he went like a dream though if I relaxed for a second he'd grab the chance. We even got some good shoulder in & the most gorgeous canter! The downside is my back muscles are starting to stiffen, my thighs feel like jelly & I've got a headache from how tight my shoulders feel. I really really hope we're not heading for weeks of this, sometimes he snaps out of it fairly quickly but more often he'll keep trying it on until things come to a head & he finally accepts that I'm not to be bossed or bullied.
I love the silly sod but at times like this I wish he had a bit less attitude & a lot less muscle
The reason? His lordship is in spring mode - arrogant, rude & bolshy. He wasn't exactly polite in the stable this morning & there was a definate "discussion" about bandages but then he calmed down. Warmed up quietly enough though he was rather inattentive & slpw to reapond. Then asked him to start working, to give some activity, bend & softness. Nothing that he can't do easily but he just wasn't playing, all he wanted to do was set against me & bowl on through the contact. Half halt, lateral flexion, transitions, changes of rein - nothing was working. If I started to get through he'd just try to yank the rein away & then set his neck & shoulder - not amusing or easy to resist on a 16.2 ID.
So we stopped (I needed to get my breathe back anyway!) & had a long chat with my RI without the distraction of riding at the same time. We both agreed he was being incredibly rude & trying his best to bully me. She was the one that brought up the spring idea, it sounds daft but we seem to have this same problem every year - it seems the grass starts to grow, the mares start coming into season, his manners leave the country & he firmly believes he's God! The answer seems to be work, coming down on any undesirable behaviour like a ton of bricks, a very positive determined attitude & occassionally nerves of steel.
Once I'd got my breath back we started again with a very different attitude from me. Any aids were to be listened to instantly - if I needed to ask twice the second ask was a telling off. He yanked the rein I yanked right back & sent him strongly forward. Bulldozering meant halt, rein back then go forward politely. And if he'd got the energy to fight then the work wasn't hard enough so we upped the ante. Fortunately the paddy never progressed to bucking & running off & after about 10min he went like a dream though if I relaxed for a second he'd grab the chance. We even got some good shoulder in & the most gorgeous canter! The downside is my back muscles are starting to stiffen, my thighs feel like jelly & I've got a headache from how tight my shoulders feel. I really really hope we're not heading for weeks of this, sometimes he snaps out of it fairly quickly but more often he'll keep trying it on until things come to a head & he finally accepts that I'm not to be bossed or bullied.
I love the silly sod but at times like this I wish he had a bit less attitude & a lot less muscle