I quit. Horses, people, everything. I absolutely give up.
Just had a message from Boxers owner saying she is going to let his old loaner (from 2years ago) have him for 2days in the week because she had been loaning another of her horses but he is being sold, so she now has nothing to ride.
This would be fine... It's her horse, her choice.
Exept I have met his old loaner and she is an absolute nightmare -- owner agrees she can be a bit of a ditz.
She used to loan Box but stopped because he was too much of a handful for her.
She hasn't had a riding lesson in her life and is 'self taught', she gave him a sore mouth from pulling.
She gets the horses at the yard to do as she says by feeding them treats as a bribe (a TOTAL false economy because all they mug her off with is 'if I do this and be naughty I get a treat').
She attempted to put Boxer's bridle on and he was playing her up so much she gave up and threw him back in his stable in rage and from then on wrestled with him to get him to take the bit - this is thought to be the reason he has such issues now.
There are numerous other things rendering her un-popular at the yard: mostly that she can be bossy.
I just feel like she is going to totally undo everything I have taught him and been working on him with.
I know it's not my horse, and if it was believe me I wouldn't let her within an inch of him - I just can't understand why owner is doing. But I just completely give up with loaning, with horses and with people :cry::cry::cry:
Just had a message from Boxers owner saying she is going to let his old loaner (from 2years ago) have him for 2days in the week because she had been loaning another of her horses but he is being sold, so she now has nothing to ride.
This would be fine... It's her horse, her choice.
Exept I have met his old loaner and she is an absolute nightmare -- owner agrees she can be a bit of a ditz.
She used to loan Box but stopped because he was too much of a handful for her.
She hasn't had a riding lesson in her life and is 'self taught', she gave him a sore mouth from pulling.
She gets the horses at the yard to do as she says by feeding them treats as a bribe (a TOTAL false economy because all they mug her off with is 'if I do this and be naughty I get a treat').
She attempted to put Boxer's bridle on and he was playing her up so much she gave up and threw him back in his stable in rage and from then on wrestled with him to get him to take the bit - this is thought to be the reason he has such issues now.
There are numerous other things rendering her un-popular at the yard: mostly that she can be bossy.
I just feel like she is going to totally undo everything I have taught him and been working on him with.
I know it's not my horse, and if it was believe me I wouldn't let her within an inch of him - I just can't understand why owner is doing. But I just completely give up with loaning, with horses and with people :cry::cry::cry: