I've just cracked this with my 6 yr old. Its amazing what you can do when your hacking buddy goes on holiday for a week
I would advise walking him in hand half way to begin with, and then if he's happy get on and ride back.
My horse will go cautiously until he knows he's on his way back, and then turns into an old hacking pro!
Set your horse up for success by going on a very short, easy and safe route, to begin with.
Last week my horse went out 3 times. The first time he snorted, blew and baulked the first half. Second time he snorted and baulked a little, and the last time he napped once. It was a defiant nap. Not at anything inparticular.He wasn't scared, so after me asking him politely and him running backwards in the road, he got a smack, and then carried on as if nothing had happened.
My friend advised me to get him trotting from the start, to get him thinking forward, which I did, and I think it really helped
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I was prepared to jump down and lead if need be, and thought I was going to be walking most of the way, but I didn't have to get off once
. I was so pleased!
Just make sure that you tell someone where you're going, so that they can come to looking if it doesn't go to plan. Also make sure you have your phone. I also had a BP on for extra confidence, and I wouldn't hack on the road without a crop.
Good luck. Would love to know how you get on