I have a strong willed highland mare, she was 9years when I got her but untouched and pretty wild and aggressive. We have been together for 15 years and have a good relationship, however she can still be very mareish and kicky especially when tacking up. All her health has been checked and tack fine, I accept this is how she is! When going out for hacks she loves it and is still forward going and seems to love it, however typical highland brakes! I have tried various bits through the years but have used a pelham with the rubber mouth piece as found this best for her, she carries herself better and her brakes are much better, I don't have to pull her. I had a discussion yesterday and was advised this is a strong bit so wondered what other people use with their highlands. My previous highland worked best in a pelham also?? I always thought a bit is only as bad as the person using it. Thanks for any advice. Louise