Sadly we've had no help from the hospital/NHS. I am self funding all treatment. They are conducting a full review into our sons still birth to see if they have lessons to learn, which sadly IMO they do. I called three times whilst in labour to report reduced movement and they refused to see me until I'd laid down for 2 hours. That's what breaks my heart even more. I'd been in labour 36 hours before he stopped moving. He was so nearly here. But I'm determined to keep talking about him and raise awareness of baby loss.Eventer Babe I am so sorry to read this. It is no light thing to lose a baby and I hope your hospital gave you and your husband plenty of support. Pregnancy care these days should cover all eventualities and all the consequences for the whole family.
Sadly I am not surprised as my experience of the NHS is that there is little joined up thinking even where things are simple. i.e. why do you have to have 3 appointments for something that could be dealt with in one? I am dealing a lot with geriatric care at the moment and it is dire.
I think the only way to prevent this is having mums in labour in the hospital on CTG monitoring from the moment labour starts. But they can't/won't. I asked my consultant. I will get that level of care next time, but only because we suffered a still birth. Seems like you need a disaster to get close care.it makes it even worse that this was probably preventable and should have been. And the way you are being treated now is even worse. Sadly I am not surprised as my experience of the NHS is that there is little joined up thinking even where things are simple. i.e. why do you have to have 3 appointments for something that could be dealt with in one? I am dealing a lot with geriatric care at the moment and it is dire.