I know recently, I have been on a major downer, what with my health, and this never ending winter..
I need to find a mean to an end so to speak, I'm at a cross roads, left going the one horse only route, ahead going the two horse route, and the right going the horseless route..
it's becoming clear I can't cope with the way things are at the moment, and there doesn't seem to be a light on the horizon, or an end to it.. I broke down in front of the yard owner on Sunday, I told her I'm really struggling to manage, it was one of the days, where I felt I had no physical strength to muck out my big 'uns stable, never mind the shelter..
Some where along the road, over the last 12 months, some thing's changed, and I can't put my finger on it:unsure: I've lost that umpth..
Some of it is work related, I'm sure, as they're really piling the pressure on us, and we're getting very little back in return, the machine can be broke, but we're treated like it's our fault.. I feel like I'm being treated as though, I'm not working well enough, even though I'm working to my best abilities, and get the best out of an often sub standard machine, that's desperate for a full maintenance, but not getting it..
I try to tell them, this needs doing, that needs sorting, but they take months to act on it, and often the problem is easily rectified, but they're not willing to put that little bit of effort in, to keep the machines ticking over properly.. and then they wonder why machines are breaking down all the time?
It's having a major effect on me, I'm very highly strung, and the first person to have a tantrum, when it comes to being fed up..
My doctor once said to me, is owning a horse too much for you? Are you making too much work for yourself? After being anaemic for the third time.. Is she right? Have I reached breaking point myself?
I want to enjoy my horses, not see them as a chore, which is where I am at the moment.. I need to put the love of horses back into my life...:help:
Roll on Summer :wink:
I need to find a mean to an end so to speak, I'm at a cross roads, left going the one horse only route, ahead going the two horse route, and the right going the horseless route..
it's becoming clear I can't cope with the way things are at the moment, and there doesn't seem to be a light on the horizon, or an end to it.. I broke down in front of the yard owner on Sunday, I told her I'm really struggling to manage, it was one of the days, where I felt I had no physical strength to muck out my big 'uns stable, never mind the shelter..
Some where along the road, over the last 12 months, some thing's changed, and I can't put my finger on it:unsure: I've lost that umpth..
Some of it is work related, I'm sure, as they're really piling the pressure on us, and we're getting very little back in return, the machine can be broke, but we're treated like it's our fault.. I feel like I'm being treated as though, I'm not working well enough, even though I'm working to my best abilities, and get the best out of an often sub standard machine, that's desperate for a full maintenance, but not getting it..
I try to tell them, this needs doing, that needs sorting, but they take months to act on it, and often the problem is easily rectified, but they're not willing to put that little bit of effort in, to keep the machines ticking over properly.. and then they wonder why machines are breaking down all the time?
It's having a major effect on me, I'm very highly strung, and the first person to have a tantrum, when it comes to being fed up..
My doctor once said to me, is owning a horse too much for you? Are you making too much work for yourself? After being anaemic for the third time.. Is she right? Have I reached breaking point myself?
I want to enjoy my horses, not see them as a chore, which is where I am at the moment.. I need to put the love of horses back into my life...:help:
Roll on Summer :wink: