Just on to vent my frustrations really. I have been going to lessons for about 5 weeks now, twice a week. I have really enjoyed getting back on a horse again (after too long a break) and at first my lessons were going well.
Now that we are concentrating on trotting, I am finding it practically impossible to get the school horse to move. For the last 2 lessons I have spent more than half the lesson just trying to get him into a trot and then as soon as he goes and the RI says for me to stop the active encouragement, he stops and goes into a slow walk again, so I am knackered by the end of the lesson, my legs are killing me trying to keep him going and I haven’t actually learned anything. When the RI starts to trot beside us, he will go but by this time I am tired and tense and am just bouncing around everywhere because I can't relax.
We tried this week for me to get him walking past the RI as he is very reliant on her, probably because he doesn’t trust me! However, he literally stops dead when he gets to her and refuses to go past – he is an immovable object. :banghead: She gave me a whip this week, which I don’t like using at all, and even that did not work well!
I do think this is more to do with me than the horse, but I just don’t know how to get past it. Will speak to my instructor this weekend but I’m not really sure what the solution is.
Sorry for this epic tale, but just feeling a bit downhearted. :cry:
Now that we are concentrating on trotting, I am finding it practically impossible to get the school horse to move. For the last 2 lessons I have spent more than half the lesson just trying to get him into a trot and then as soon as he goes and the RI says for me to stop the active encouragement, he stops and goes into a slow walk again, so I am knackered by the end of the lesson, my legs are killing me trying to keep him going and I haven’t actually learned anything. When the RI starts to trot beside us, he will go but by this time I am tired and tense and am just bouncing around everywhere because I can't relax.
We tried this week for me to get him walking past the RI as he is very reliant on her, probably because he doesn’t trust me! However, he literally stops dead when he gets to her and refuses to go past – he is an immovable object. :banghead: She gave me a whip this week, which I don’t like using at all, and even that did not work well!
I do think this is more to do with me than the horse, but I just don’t know how to get past it. Will speak to my instructor this weekend but I’m not really sure what the solution is.
Sorry for this epic tale, but just feeling a bit downhearted. :cry: