alright i feel really dumb asking, when ** RI tells u to give ** horses a squeeze,does that mean literatly squeeze with your tieghs and knees or give a little tapwith your heel? trooper is a bit of a stubborn horse, but always have ridden him from day one,and during my first few lessons i was trying to squeeze to get him to start,and it seemed to be doing no good,so now i jsut resulted in giving him a little tap on the side. is this bad..should i jsut learn how to squeeze harder,and keep clucking till trooper moves