Right a bit of a ramble coming up.
Bad accident two years ago on what I now call scary lane = fractured back.
Got back in the saddle 3 months later and have been battling to get my confidence back to what it was ever since.
Had plenty of lessons with RI and plenty of hacks out with friends and thats all fine.
Its when I try to do it alone. Which I have a huge compulsion to do and used to do regularly. Things are not what I would like them to be.
Daisy has become an obstinate horse when going solo. I suppose she's nervous although she doesn't appear to be, she will plant and not look to bothered. she locks her neck solid and I end up doing flexions, soft hands and a few steps forward.
I have just been reading my diary and even last year I thought I had conquered scary lane, but as last week showed when it took 20 minutes to ride down it when it should take 2 or 3, we are not there yet.
I suppose in the back of my head i must still hold a fear for the bl--dy lane, but its not just there, went out with friend yesterday who is a nervous rider and this seems to upset Daisy too, it takes all my energy to get her to lead, she seems to like just following.
Do you think my nerves have turned her into a nervous nellie? I thought we were doing great but as soon as we are on our own it is so frustrating. I have had a break from lessons but planning to go every other week again. Its lovely to go out with friends but it does seem to turn Daisy and myself into lazy followers, sort of creeps up on you.
I would like Daisy to trust me enough to just go wherever I ask. How do I get her back to this, she was fine until that bloomin accident :banghead:and last year when i did loads of solo stuff she was fine too, once I had walked her in hand somewhere.
ramble over, gold stars if you got to the end and understand where i am coming from :mstickle:
Bad accident two years ago on what I now call scary lane = fractured back.
Got back in the saddle 3 months later and have been battling to get my confidence back to what it was ever since.
Had plenty of lessons with RI and plenty of hacks out with friends and thats all fine.
Its when I try to do it alone. Which I have a huge compulsion to do and used to do regularly. Things are not what I would like them to be.
Daisy has become an obstinate horse when going solo. I suppose she's nervous although she doesn't appear to be, she will plant and not look to bothered. she locks her neck solid and I end up doing flexions, soft hands and a few steps forward.
I have just been reading my diary and even last year I thought I had conquered scary lane, but as last week showed when it took 20 minutes to ride down it when it should take 2 or 3, we are not there yet.
I suppose in the back of my head i must still hold a fear for the bl--dy lane, but its not just there, went out with friend yesterday who is a nervous rider and this seems to upset Daisy too, it takes all my energy to get her to lead, she seems to like just following.
Do you think my nerves have turned her into a nervous nellie? I thought we were doing great but as soon as we are on our own it is so frustrating. I have had a break from lessons but planning to go every other week again. Its lovely to go out with friends but it does seem to turn Daisy and myself into lazy followers, sort of creeps up on you.
I would like Daisy to trust me enough to just go wherever I ask. How do I get her back to this, she was fine until that bloomin accident :banghead:and last year when i did loads of solo stuff she was fine too, once I had walked her in hand somewhere.
ramble over, gold stars if you got to the end and understand where i am coming from :mstickle: