Hi all. Im 46yrs old... I started riding lessons apprx 18 mths ago after giving up lessons when I was a child aged 8 (major mistake). I got a foot back in though by just having a hack twice a year with my friend for apprx 7 years. but we both decided we wanted more than £25 for an hour walk trot through a wood/country park. So found a friendly established riding school. I was doing great on the school horses, although never had much confidence in my ability despite the instructor telling me I was a good rider (but hard on myself & perfectionist). She had me doing small jumps on a 16.2HH who was a tad grumpy & also on a mare who was very head strong. I handled both horses brilliantly & was so pleased & proud of myself. My only thing was I panicked if I lost a stirrup. I love horses so much I wanted to be around them more & more & I don't have the money to own one I'm not that blessed lol. I put an ad online to offer help with stable duties in exchange for tips on riding (not to loan or share horse) I know I must be mad working for free . In end my boss who has her own, got me a Welsh section C mare, to look after on a Sunday with 2 other 'green' horsies. So it ended up I looked after the 3 amigos & got to ride the MARE (Gemma) whenever I wanted.... happy days... or so I thought. She was an absolute NIGHTMARE! we only had her in the menage but she spooked at EVERYTHING I came off her just trotting around she spun I came off & unfortunately got dragged a little way & received a kick on my knee cap as she bolted I was distraught BUT ladies & germs I did get back on. But I was so scared. I carried on at my riding school as normal & tried to continue riding Gemma but she was so angry & nappy it wasn't a nice experience. I then had one lesson at the school where the 16HH fella had a grumpy day n stamped his feet etc. & I got scared & refused to carry on my lesson. Then 5 weeks ago I had last attempt at the farm & she threw a wobbly over trotting poles & even though I hung on for dear life Gemma literally spun round 3 times until I came off, I ended up with an egg on my head (no idea how as had my hat on) & 3 black fingers one of which turned out to be broken! ! So I've finished riding her as it killed my confidence with her & also with the riding school horses. I'm now back to sitting on the schools horses looking like a rabbit in headlights and not wanting to even go over trotting poles in case the horse spooks like Gemma did.
I did go on an hour hack on my beautiful fave horsey at the riding school with my broken finger the week after. Now I'm wondering if I'm too old for all this & should I stop wasting my money I have a cracked disc in my spine of 5 years so trotting is pretty painful, bit i never let that ztop me. I love horses so much it's all I talk about & I just wish I could stop being so nervous x
I did go on an hour hack on my beautiful fave horsey at the riding school with my broken finger the week after. Now I'm wondering if I'm too old for all this & should I stop wasting my money I have a cracked disc in my spine of 5 years so trotting is pretty painful, bit i never let that ztop me. I love horses so much it's all I talk about & I just wish I could stop being so nervous x