Hi Dee
I would definately recommend Le Trec. I had a go at one a couple of weeks ago. I was not as well prepared as you and really had no idea what to expect. Most of the obstacles were on the orienteering section so it was pretty challenging, but a lot of fun. It rained so also quite slippery! The thing my horse found most difficult to deal with was that sometimes we caught up with other horses and then they went ahead, and then we had to go ahead and leave others behind. But he coped very well! He and my friends mare took it in turns to nap, but we got round! This was my first ever competitive event and I really enjoyed it, very relaxed and supportive. Friendly people and every shape and size of horse. We are planning to have a go at another one in June. There were several husband and wife pairs, mine would only come on his trails bike! You and your OH should have a great time.