I have a pony on part loan for my 9 year old son, who along with being small for his age, is also very very young for his age and quite 'babyish'.
The pony is a diamond - a real confidence giver and such a cutey too.
My son is loving the groundwork part of the whole thing..... enjoys helping with catching and bringing in, changing rugs, grooming, feeding etc..... even happy to help carry water and do his fair share of the mucky stuff!
However...... when it comes to riding he's extremely timid, and more than happy to just plod around in walk. Before starting the part-loan he'd had lots of lessons at an RS and was off lead rein, trotting independently, but hadn't moved onto canter.
I'm not an AI but have enough experience to teach him - I tell him to get the pony walking on more, and try to keep things interesting for him. He'll trot, but only in short bursts, I'm yet to get him to trot round the whole school. He'll trot circles, but if I ask him to change the rein or do serpentines, or anything in trot he just refuses. The most I can get out of him is half an hour in the school. We go out on hacks with me as the foot soldier with a lead rein handy (which I only really use when we get near roads). Again, he just wants to stay in walk, and when I try to encourage him to trot he has every excuse under the sun not to.
I've even told him that I'm not prepared to continue the part-loan if he doesn't want to progress with his riding. After all, it's me doing all the hard work and stable jobs. He says he doesn't want this to happen and will try harder, but then the next time he rides he's back to being a 'passenger'.
Once, as a punishment for being naughty at school I told him he couldn't ride that night....... he looked delighted!!!!
I'm getting him proper riding lessons on the pony with a freelance AI - just once every couple of weeks, and he seems to be a bit better with the instructor telling him to trot (it's the age old problem of not wanting to listen to mum!)
This has been going on for 2 months now and he usually rides 2/3 times a week (only because I make him though).
How long do I persevere for? Am I being impatient, or does it sound as if his heart isn't in it? I just know that if I'd been given this opportunity at his age, I'd have been cockahoop!!!
The pony is a diamond - a real confidence giver and such a cutey too.
My son is loving the groundwork part of the whole thing..... enjoys helping with catching and bringing in, changing rugs, grooming, feeding etc..... even happy to help carry water and do his fair share of the mucky stuff!
However...... when it comes to riding he's extremely timid, and more than happy to just plod around in walk. Before starting the part-loan he'd had lots of lessons at an RS and was off lead rein, trotting independently, but hadn't moved onto canter.
I'm not an AI but have enough experience to teach him - I tell him to get the pony walking on more, and try to keep things interesting for him. He'll trot, but only in short bursts, I'm yet to get him to trot round the whole school. He'll trot circles, but if I ask him to change the rein or do serpentines, or anything in trot he just refuses. The most I can get out of him is half an hour in the school. We go out on hacks with me as the foot soldier with a lead rein handy (which I only really use when we get near roads). Again, he just wants to stay in walk, and when I try to encourage him to trot he has every excuse under the sun not to.
I've even told him that I'm not prepared to continue the part-loan if he doesn't want to progress with his riding. After all, it's me doing all the hard work and stable jobs. He says he doesn't want this to happen and will try harder, but then the next time he rides he's back to being a 'passenger'.
Once, as a punishment for being naughty at school I told him he couldn't ride that night....... he looked delighted!!!!
I'm getting him proper riding lessons on the pony with a freelance AI - just once every couple of weeks, and he seems to be a bit better with the instructor telling him to trot (it's the age old problem of not wanting to listen to mum!)
This has been going on for 2 months now and he usually rides 2/3 times a week (only because I make him though).
How long do I persevere for? Am I being impatient, or does it sound as if his heart isn't in it? I just know that if I'd been given this opportunity at his age, I'd have been cockahoop!!!