Bluntcrayon's (non-horsey) London dating blog...

Hahaha im sure. Go with what you think, but sounds like its going great with Safi, but it depends what you want. Look forward to the next installment and what you decide to do! :unsure: Decisions, decisions.

Oh god i have just realised how utterly boring my life is haha. Just watched Holby City, one of my weekly highlights! Anyway i could not keep up, im rubbish with names as it is, i would get in a right old mess. :happy:
 
Can we have a link to your page...to stalk further?? :p:D

Sorry PFB can't post links to pages there's some kind of security thing...

Here are the latest guys on the cards anyway...

Kobi:

London
Southwark
children:
none
diet:
a bit of everything
religion:
other
drinking:
weekend good times
smoking:
occasional social
education:
university
employment:
employed
Finance
height:
5' 8"
build:
athletic
summary:
successful, loyal, the life & soul of the party, terribly witty, outgoing, enthusiastic about life, sporty, intelligent, a club lover and doesn't suffer fools!!

Nick has this to say about Kobi:

Hopefully by putting Kobi on here I can finally replace him with a decent wingman as the numerous women who we attract/snare (there are lots) are always a lot more taken by his charm, humour and cheeky smile than by his less refined friends.

After Kobi graduated (despite reading none of the books on his course, and rarely waking up in time for class) he lived the dream by relocating to London and moving into a 2 bedroom flat with a pigeon, fondly remembered as Mr.Pombo (RIP), but his hard work, intelligence and warm personality has allowed him to make his mark professionally, culminating in his recent young financial superstar of the world award... he actually came 2nd as his modesty would not allow him to claim first prize. He is domesticated too, he recently cooked himself enough biriyani to last a week and kindly left his washing up in the kitchen to highlight his accomplishment. Kobi also gets a lot of attention from gay men which is testimony to how well he presents himself (in public at least) and the hours he puts in the gym.

I recommend you go for a drink with Kobi as he will instantly put you at ease and you are guaranteed to leave with a smile on your face.

to which Kobi responded:

I like Milkybar Buttons, Ribena, Lacoste Red, music, Tom Cruise and sport.

However, what I LOVE is 'Sunday Night Movie Club', good nights out, immaculate planning, Houmous and crackers, walking along the riverside but on the south bank, ethnic food but not really Chinese, good banter but not about my elfish ears, hard work ambition and success, and most of all a laid back, funny, competent-at-Xbox replacement for Mr Pombo so if anyone has corresponding likes and is also a great liar and can tell wild stories about how we met then by all means...



Duncan:

area:
London
Lambeth
children:
none
diet:
a bit of everything
religion:
none
drinking:
weekend good times
smoking:
yes
education:
university
employment:
employed
PR
height:
5' 8"
build:
athletic
summary:
a home lover, possible marriage material, a confident sort, a good listener, outgoing, smartly turned out, a countryside lover, laid back, enthusiastic about life and intelligent!!
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Cassandra has this to say about Duncan:

Ladies, roll up, roll up. I have here a genuine good-guy with a bit of a cheeky streak on offer. You may want to grab him whilst he's still available as I doubt he will be on the market for long!

What can I say about Duncan? He's my flatmate, I live with him. It's ok, he's not your typical smelly boy - I have had cuddles off him (he gives great cuddles!) and he smells very lovely indeed! Duncan is a very unique individual; in a good way (this is possible, honest!), he has a lot of hidden depth, great banter and really knows how to treat a girl.

He actually listens when you need to talk and moan. He's a lot of fun on a night out, can cut some fine shapes on the dance floor and likes shopping. Yes, I am not kidding, this fine specimen of a man likes to go shopping. Clothes too. Not just boy type gadgets. Clothes. I know, it's amazing! He also gives great advice on what you wear, I'm yet to ask him 'does my bum look big in this?' I'd imagine he'd tell you yes, but manage to make you feel great at the same time!

He's very much a country boy at heart; but likes the buzz of London - he is Welsh (please do not hold this against him!) and has mastered living in London pretty well! Duncan can be found doing various things to keep himself entertained. He isn't one to sit still for long, but at the same time is quite happy at home, with good company, good food and good vino. I hear he's a good cook, he does make a mean Thai soup. Duncan is quite happy for a debate and will keep you on your toes, so you'll never get bored. He does like sports, so that would also be a bonus!

Anyway. Date my flat mate. You won't be disappointed!

to which Duncan responded:

Well, I've been signed up to my singlefriend.com and for the first time in a while I'm speechless! It's fair to say Cass has pretty much summed me up... I don't really know what else to say (second time speechless)!

Music is a big passion of mine, it would be nice if I could have someone to share that passion with.

I moved to London just before Christmas and am enjoying every minute of it... moving from the Gower in Swansea (a place right on the beach) the pace of life took a little getting used to at first but I think I've adjusted well! It's true, I can cook, pretty much anything...

Lazy Sundays, breakfast in bed, picnics in the park and gigs tend to top-off my time. I like to escape back home to the country, and make the most of the beautiful beaches near where I live! I'm definitely into fitness as well

I guess this is the part where I tell you what I'm looking for... someone with a sense of humour is a must, seems quite an easy set of criteria.

A few random things about me...

1. I love Italian food - it's a serious condition (also wouldn't it be great to be part of a family like the Sopranos?)

2. If faced with the choice of gym or pub, pub would win every time.

3. I am a bit of a vacuum for useless knowledge and am pretty obsessed with random things - I'm pretty good in a pub quiz.

4. My favourite TV programmes are Gavin and Stacey, The Office (also, watched Take Me Out, that's a little embarrassing) and stuck with all six seasons of Lost (worth a medal) and thought the ending made the rest of the show completely pointless.

5. I've supported Swansea City since I've been old enough to walk.

6. I'll wipe the floor with you at Monopoly

If this all seems a little vague, Cass did such a good job in the first place it hasn't left me with much to say!

If that hasn't sent you running for the hills, send me a message!




Welsh... I am a bit of a sucker for an accent... :)
 
Oh and in other news.... before I split up with Matt I went to the family planning clinic for regular appointment and they weighed me as they do... I was 9 stone 3 lbs which was heaviest I'd ever been!! Weighed myself this morning and am...

8 stone 6 lbs!!!

:D

Haven't even been dieting, just eating non-boyfriend sized portions! And spending less on food overall... We used to budget £400 a month for food, now I'm spending more like £120... have been drinking loads though so not like I've been depriving myself, alcohol calories surely count! Uber pleased :)
 
Technically a booty call is when someone rings you late at night probably a bit tipsy and wants to see you.......

But I think MASA is suggesting he is expecting sex...

However spoke to him last night and there is def no sex on the cards as I made it clear I am getting train home!!!

Saturday however............ ;)
 
I thought it was casual sex, but correct me if I'm wrong :redface: I do lead a rather sheltered life LOL.

Obviously not that sheltered! BC your blog is awesome, loads of entertainment for a bored pregnant person! And can I just say I am feeling slight twinges of JEALOUSY! I love that your going out and enjoying your new found freedom. I did at your age and it was the best thing ever, while all my mates from home were getting married and having babies I was out meeting new people and enjoying the sweety jar (although not toooo much!) and now I'm ready for the babies while their all like oh I wish I'd done this or that! Keep us totally informed x
 
Kobi - date number whatever - I've lost count

Met Kobi near Liverpool Street. First impressions OK, smart, not very tall!! Another shorty. I think they must be like 'yesss, she's 5"3, I'll message her!" I was expecting from his emails he'd be a real chatty loudmouth but that was me as usual, oops! So he was a bit quieter than I'd expected. Nice guy though, funny. We went for a pizza at Fire+Stone in Spitalfields then I got my train home. No goodnight kiss. Did I have a good time... yes. Did I fancy him... not really.

Shortly am off to meet Bob, am a little bit nervous as still have not sussed out what the crack is with him... I have a lovely new outfit to wear (dusty mauve playsuit, uber flattering, and a little grey blazer... sooo nice) but it is raining, not exactly bare legs weather!!! We are meeting at BKB in Soho and I don't know much more than that apart from I AM NOT STAYING OUT LATE as I am bloody knackered...

Wish me luck!!
 
God Im knackered just reading this:giggle:.......wish I was young again....they said we had freedom in the sixtys...dont think so now Im stalking bluntcrayon on her never ending jaunts around London...:smoke::giggle:
 
Loving the blog, Duncan sounds nice and welsh yum yum !!!
Cant wait to hear about him !

As for the chat with safi Hmmm I wouldnt yet but Im not sure about the not sleeping with others, I think you should do what feels best to you at that time, I mean for all you know he could be sleeping with others right ?

Been there done that and got hurt, keep your options open untill the chat has taken place and you both no longer on interent dating.
 
Soooo 2nd date with Bobby went pretty well...

Drinks, chat, smooch...... I did go home to Chelmsford though you will be pleased to hear!

Confused now... seeing Safi tomorrow but like Bobby as well now. Hot, muscly, good in bed personal trainer, or hot, rich, good in bed ad exec? Oh sod it I'll just have both.........
 
I am soooooo jealous! Part of me wishes i was single again but having kids it would be impossible to do what your doing if i am being realistic! :(

Loving this thread! :biggrin:
 
Soooo 2nd date with Bobby went pretty well...

Drinks, chat, smooch...... I did go home to Chelmsford though you will be pleased to hear!

Confused now... seeing Safi tomorrow but like Bobby as well now. Hot, muscly, good in bed personal trainer, or hot, rich, good in bed ad exec? Oh sod it I'll just have both.........

Just watch you don't get caught out! if you're a fan of friends you might remember the episode with Pheobe dating 2 men, one was a fireman and the other a school teacher - they found out about each other and she ended up with neither of them!!!! lol
 
Yeah well I think after this weekend I'm going to be too busy for much more dating (sorry ladies!) as have my event, so maybe just see once either Bobby or Safi depending on how I feel after seeing Safi this Saturday... and see if we have this conversation!!
 
Duncan's gone all quiet... hmm.

Sooo Saturday... went over to Safi's, took bloody ages, stupid trains. We *ahem* said hello, then went out to a Turkish place near his, had some food, went for a drink, I stayed over, all good.... was worried after the other week about 'the conversation' but no sign of that, didn't really get those vibes... Had a fun evening but nothing special, did not come home swooning... and was not really couply atmosphere, more like friends 'with extras'... I reckon I've got him figured now, he's playing it cool, so I'm going to play him right back! No 'conversations' any time soon then lol which suits me as I don't feel guilty AT ALL that I am planning to see Bobby this weekend ;)

PS the extras were fantastic though :D
 
Loving this thread:biggrin: only just caught up with it! but its fantastic:biggrin:

I was hoping Safi was the 'one' as well... but kind of glad as means the diary updates will carry on:biggrin:

good on ya girl for getting back out there :wavespin:
 
No no Nookster that isn't the point... I don't want to meet 'the one'!! If anything I am relieved that it isn't moving too quickly, in fact I don't even know if it's going anywhere and if it is I don't want it to get there just yet!
 
No no Nookster that isn't the point... I don't want to meet 'the one'!! If anything I am relieved that it isn't moving too quickly, in fact I don't even know if it's going anywhere and if it is I don't want it to get there just yet!

lol kind of got that but at the same time thought even though you didn't want to you might have :smug:

:dance: before i got with my husband and after my last long relationship i had fun:giggle: mucho fun:bounce: you gotta live:dance: take as much time as you need:biggrin: but keep this updated lol
 
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